Saturday, November 29, 2008

Being Momee

Available, Busy, Idle. These are defaults.When all the friends on the list are too occupied to chat, or atleast pretend to be so,what makes even staring at the gtalk window interesting are the personalized status messages. Some Romantic, Funny, Philosophical,Scientific and some directed for particular person. " Available *. * Conditions Apply".
I did enjoy personalzing my status on G talk. Some sensible,some totally senseless.Call it heights of joblessness, creativity, or boredom breakers.I always observed there was an extra Hi or two from the long list of people. I think it just a curio to know the reason for comments.It did help me start a reasonable communication rather than an abrupt "Hi, how are u? Where r u?" or an occasional "who r u?". Now that I am full time baby sitting, I am just being one defaulter(I use defaults) in gtalk. Recently, I put this comment "Being momee means memory loss" on my orkut. There was a good response. A friend of mine had commented "its just the beginning of many more loses". How true!!
There is Loss of Memory, Sleep, Concentration, dip in Confidence,Chat with friends, Shopping,Movies, mostly the finals/climax of shows on TV,Tour and trips,Having my favourite Fries,Chaat,Icecream and even Pickles, Cold shower,Clean Clothes,Anniversary celebration:( sigh..
Hmm, I gained a lot too, 15 kgs , Patience, Blessings( when the 2 month old cries incessantly,helplessness drives you to recite prayers 24hrs), Attention,Advise, Some gifts/cash vouchers Yep, I take them as the addressee is too young:). Moments of unaltered,priceless,non plastic smile of the little one.
I am sure the list would grow with my baby . I am taking a day at a time and enjoying it all.Well, Now my status message reads "Blog Updated :))"

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